Power "puff" Women

With so many people looking for work in this economy, many of us are trying to eliminate any obstacle that could stand in our way of obtaining employment. Career-seeking women wearing their natural textured hair have one more thing to worry about "will they judge me because of my hair." To say 'no that will never happen' is a lie. From what I know, I have never been denied any job or promotion because of the way that I wear my hair but I wouldn't put it past anyone because we all human and all have different opinions. You can look through this blog and see the many different hairstyles that I have worn and I can say with confidence, 99% of them have been worn at work and I have gotten my job and been promoted 2 times with my hair. So for now, I do what I want with my hair -within reason.

The only time my hair was a distraction was during an interview when the interviewer was more interested in my hair care regimen and products than they were about my skills. For that reason alone I prefer to wear buns when I need people focused on something other than my hair.

There are a number of women that are in high ranking positions in the workforce that acutally wear thier natural hair. This is only a few:

1. Elaine R. Jones: President and director counsel of the NAACP Legal Defense and Educational Fund, Inc.
2. Marian Wright Edelman: Founder and President of the Children's Defense Fund
3. Ursula Burn: Vice President and General Manager, Departmental Copier Business Xerox
4. Brenda Lauderback: Retired President of the Wholesale and Retail Group of Nine West Group, Inc.
5. Siza Mzimela: CEO South-African Airways
6. Esi Eggleston Bracey: VP & GM Global Cosmetics Innovation, Branding and Operations Procter & Gamble
7. Julie Brown: SVP, Procurement Kraft Foods
8. Susan E. Chapman: Global Head of Operations & Strategy, Citigroup Corporate Realty Services

My thought is that we are more concerned about our hair because our own people have planted that thought in our mind that our naturally textured hair is not acceptable. Sadly, it seems that many naturals receive more acceptance and compliments from people who do not look like them - family and friends included.

When wearing your natural hair anywhere, you should wear it with confidence. However if you are not yet ready to take the chance of obtaining employment with your natural hair, you have options. That is one of the best things about natural hair - versatility.
Optional styles include:
- Buns, if your hair isn't long enough, get a phony bun
- Wigs, if it looks natural no one will be able to tell
- Neat twist-outs, keep it defined by twisting neatly on damp hair and don't fluff
- Roller-sets, individuals with straight hair wear curls all the time
- You can even press/flat iron your hair if you are not afraid of heat

Mostly importantly when interviewing be sure to know your stuff (company history, scenarios, job duties, etc). Perfect hair serves no purpose if you bomb the interview. Good luck ladies and I hope this post motivates you to chase your dreams no matter how your hair looks.

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Power "puff" Women

With so many people looking for work in this economy, many of us are trying to eliminate any obstacle that could stand in our way of obtaining employment. Career-seeking women wearing their natural textured hair have one more thing to worry about "will they judge me because of my hair." To say 'no that will never happen' is a lie. From what I know, I have never been denied any job or promotion because of the way that I wear my hair but I wouldn't put it past anyone because we all human and all have different opinions. You can look through this blog and see the many different hairstyles that I have worn and I can say with confidence, 99% of them have been worn at work and I have gotten my job and been promoted 2 times with my hair. So for now, I do what I want with my hair -within reason.

The only time my hair was a distraction was during an interview when the interviewer was more interested in my hair care regimen and products than they were about my skills. For that reason alone I prefer to wear buns when I need people focused on something other than my hair.

There are a number of women that are in high ranking positions in the workforce that acutally wear thier natural hair. This is only a few:

1. Elaine R. Jones: President and director counsel of the NAACP Legal Defense and Educational Fund, Inc.
2. Marian Wright Edelman: Founder and President of the Children's Defense Fund
3. Ursula Burn: Vice President and General Manager, Departmental Copier Business Xerox
4. Brenda Lauderback: Retired President of the Wholesale and Retail Group of Nine West Group, Inc.
5. Siza Mzimela: CEO South-African Airways
6. Esi Eggleston Bracey: VP & GM Global Cosmetics Innovation, Branding and Operations Procter & Gamble
7. Julie Brown: SVP, Procurement Kraft Foods
8. Susan E. Chapman: Global Head of Operations & Strategy, Citigroup Corporate Realty Services

My thought is that we are more concerned about our hair because our own people have planted that thought in our mind that our naturally textured hair is not acceptable. Sadly, it seems that many naturals receive more acceptance and compliments from people who do not look like them - family and friends included.

When wearing your natural hair anywhere, you should wear it with confidence. However if you are not yet ready to take the chance of obtaining employment with your natural hair, you have options. That is one of the best things about natural hair - versatility.
Optional styles include:
- Buns, if your hair isn't long enough, get a phony bun
- Wigs, if it looks natural no one will be able to tell
- Neat twist-outs, keep it defined by twisting neatly on damp hair and don't fluff
- Roller-sets, individuals with straight hair wear curls all the time
- You can even press/flat iron your hair if you are not afraid of heat

Mostly importantly when interviewing be sure to know your stuff (company history, scenarios, job duties, etc). Perfect hair serves no purpose if you bomb the interview. Good luck ladies and I hope this post motivates you to chase your dreams no matter how your hair looks.

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The Cotillion Online

Could your sunglasses be destroying your hairline?

This morning I had to switch my sunglasses twice because the frames kept snagging the hair behind my ears. I  started freaking out because I immediately started thinking about this guy I know that has little to no hair behind his ears because of wearing sunglasses all the time.

I wear my sunglasses year-round but a lot more in the summer. So this is the time of year that I really start to notice any problems with my sunglasses. Sunglasses with frames similar to the ones below have a tendency to crack and peel over time. Some take longer than others before this starts to happen. I believe my problem started and worsened due to me leaving the shades in a hot car for hours at a time. Plastic melts.

To be on the safe side you may want to invest in a quality pair of sunglasses with frames similar to the ones below. Those frames are a lot smoother and typically made with a hard plastic substance that is less likely to crack and peel like the frames above.

There are quite a few places where you can obtain sunglasses that are affordable:
Aldo
Retro City Sunglasses
6pm.com
If you prefer a pair that is more high end, check out:
Saks
Nordstrom
Overstock

Happy sunglasses shopping! I know that is what I will be doing this weekend :)

Could your sunglasses be destroying your hairline?

This morning I had to switch my sunglasses twice because the frames kept snagging the hair behind my ears. I  started freaking out because I immediately started thinking about this guy I know that has little to no hair behind his ears because of wearing sunglasses all the time.

I wear my sunglasses year-round but a lot more in the summer. So this is the time of year that I really start to notice any problems with my sunglasses. Sunglasses with frames similar to the ones below have a tendency to crack and peel over time. Some take longer than others before this starts to happen. I believe my problem started and worsened due to me leaving the shades in a hot car for hours at a time. Plastic melts.

To be on the safe side you may want to invest in a quality pair of sunglasses with frames similar to the ones below. Those frames are a lot smoother and typically made with a hard plastic substance that is less likely to crack and peel like the frames above.

There are quite a few places where you can obtain sunglasses that are affordable:
Aldo
Retro City Sunglasses
6pm.com
If you prefer a pair that is more high end, check out:
Saks
Nordstrom
Overstock

Happy sunglasses shopping! I know that is what I will be doing this weekend :)

Length Retention or a facade?

Facade: a superficial appearance or illusion of something: They managed somehow to maintain a facade of wealth.(1)


They are so many "gurus" out there in the natural hair world and it can be easy to get swept up into the mesmerizing curls/kinks of the bloggers and vloggers of the natural hair world. During my first year reading the blogs, natural hair forums, and watching YouTube videos I found myself drowning in information. However, there was one thing in particular that contributed to a setback in the very beginning of my journey.


Most of us have that person (or persons) that we consider hair idols because they have reached that goal that we have in mind. So in the beginning of my journey I had my eyes set on the hair of an individual that appeared to have the hair care game down to a T. In actuality, that person's hair care practices dramatically impacted length retention and hair health. It took me a whole year of watching and following this person to realize that my hair did not appear to be getting longer and their hair also stayed at the same length. 


The first thing I did was ask this individual if they were cutting their hair to stay that length. No response to that question - or to any others that asked about cutting/trimming. After I started putting together my own regimen and techniques (learned from trial and error) I finally started getting the results I desired. To this day this individual is still very close to still being at the same length - it has been 3 yrs. Now, there is a chance that some hair cuts have occurred over this time period, I stopped watching. I am not assuming to know everything about this person's hair care practices. (I will not name this individual).


One of my favorite quotes is "you can't make all the mistakes yourself, so learn from someone else's." I am not sharing this to bash - but in hopes that it helps someone avoid the same setback I encountered.


When searching for a regimen that will work for you:
1. Examine the progress of the person raving about the regimen
2. Ask questions - if they go unanswered or don't sound quite right, think about your next move carefully.
3. Are all the comparison pics a fair comparison (pose, photoshop, same section measured, etc)?
4. Is this person paid to plug products or services?
5. Are hair care methods and alternative thoroughly explained and supported?


MANY individuals are using their precious time to offer help to others on their healthy hair journey - while some see this as an opportunity to cash in .  I started blogging for friends and people in my social circle that had questions. I couldn't keep so I had to put all the info in one place - I do this for the sole purpose of helping others. (I wish it could be my full-time job, lol).


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Length Retention or a facade?

Facade: a superficial appearance or illusion of something: They managed somehow to maintain a facade of wealth.(1)


They are so many "gurus" out there in the natural hair world and it can be easy to get swept up into the mesmerizing curls/kinks of the bloggers and vloggers of the natural hair world. During my first year reading the blogs, natural hair forums, and watching YouTube videos I found myself drowning in information. However, there was one thing in particular that contributed to a setback in the very beginning of my journey.


Most of us have that person (or persons) that we consider hair idols because they have reached that goal that we have in mind. So in the beginning of my journey I had my eyes set on the hair of an individual that appeared to have the hair care game down to a T. In actuality, that person's hair care practices dramatically impacted length retention and hair health. It took me a whole year of watching and following this person to realize that my hair did not appear to be getting longer and their hair also stayed at the same length. 


The first thing I did was ask this individual if they were cutting their hair to stay that length. No response to that question - or to any others that asked about cutting/trimming. After I started putting together my own regimen and techniques (learned from trial and error) I finally started getting the results I desired. To this day this individual is still very close to still being at the same length - it has been 3 yrs. Now, there is a chance that some hair cuts have occurred over this time period, I stopped watching. I am not assuming to know everything about this person's hair care practices. (I will not name this individual).


One of my favorite quotes is "you can't make all the mistakes yourself, so learn from someone else's." I am not sharing this to bash - but in hopes that it helps someone avoid the same setback I encountered.


When searching for a regimen that will work for you:
1. Examine the progress of the person raving about the regimen
2. Ask questions - if they go unanswered or don't sound quite right, think about your next move carefully.
3. Are all the comparison pics a fair comparison (pose, photoshop, same section measured, etc)?
4. Is this person paid to plug products or services?
5. Are hair care methods and alternative thoroughly explained and supported?


MANY individuals are using their precious time to offer help to others on their healthy hair journey - while some see this as an opportunity to cash in .  I started blogging for friends and people in my social circle that had questions. I couldn't keep so I had to put all the info in one place - I do this for the sole purpose of helping others. (I wish it could be my full-time job, lol).


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Style Search: TWA, BBA, and all lengths in between

In July 2010 I.M.I. held a giveaway that asked readers to suggest topics that they would like to see on the blog. The following topic was inspired by one of those suggestions:

When I am looking for a new style and I get stumped, I have found the that internet and a good ol' Google search can provide me with some inspirations. Recently, I have discovered Tumblr and the numerous natural hair photo blogs that are housed on that website. Here are a few that I like to browse regularly:

Natural Hair Rules!
le coil
Currently Obsessed With...
**** Yeah Natural Hair

Those will keep you busy for a few hours and if you start clicking around you will come across more photo blogs. Hairstyles will  not always fall into your lap, especially natural hair styles, so you must go looking for them. Happy Hairstyle Hunting.

Be sure to click the Suggested Topic label to see all the posts in this series.

Style Search: TWA, BBA, and all lengths in between

In July 2010 I.M.I. held a giveaway that asked readers to suggest topics that they would like to see on the blog. The following topic was inspired by one of those suggestions:

When I am looking for a new style and I get stumped, I have found the that internet and a good ol' Google search can provide me with some inspirations. Recently, I have discovered Tumblr and the numerous natural hair photo blogs that are housed on that website. Here are a few that I like to browse regularly:

Natural Hair Rules!
le coil
Currently Obsessed With...
**** Yeah Natural Hair

Those will keep you busy for a few hours and if you start clicking around you will come across more photo blogs. Hairstyles will  not always fall into your lap, especially natural hair styles, so you must go looking for them. Happy Hairstyle Hunting.

Be sure to click the Suggested Topic label to see all the posts in this series.

Tip: Modifying your hat

                                                         

 

I love wearing hats and I think I have one in almost every color. Many of my hats resemble the ones pictured above. We all know that it's not in our hair's best interest to have something rough constantly rubbing against it. So to remedy this problem I have a little trick to keep my hair safe and still wear my hats regularly.

Before putting on a hat I style my hair (twists, braids, etc) and apply any product of my choosing and then I put on a black bonnet

After putting on the bonnet I then put on my hat. Since the bonnet is black it gives the illusion that I am actually wearing a lined hat. This method is easier, cheaper, and quicker than purchasing fabric to line all of your hats one by one.

Another benefit of this method is that your can set your hair under the bonnet for a style especially if you are not one to leave the house with braid or twist sets visible.

Happy hat wearing!!

Tip: Modifying your hat

                                                         

 

I love wearing hats and I think I have one in almost every color. Many of my hats resemble the ones pictured above. We all know that it's not in our hair's best interest to have something rough constantly rubbing against it. So to remedy this problem I have a little trick to keep my hair safe and still wear my hats regularly.

Before putting on a hat I style my hair (twists, braids, etc) and apply any product of my choosing and then I put on a black bonnet

After putting on the bonnet I then put on my hat. Since the bonnet is black it gives the illusion that I am actually wearing a lined hat. This method is easier, cheaper, and quicker than purchasing fabric to line all of your hats one by one.

Another benefit of this method is that your can set your hair under the bonnet for a style especially if you are not one to leave the house with braid or twist sets visible.

Happy hat wearing!!

Product Recommendation?

Can I get some advice from you?

I am currently on a product buying fast and I refuse to buy anymore shampoos or conditioners until I have used up what I have.

Earlier this year I went on a hair diet and I was very satisfied with the results of using sulfate free and 'cone free products. I am not eliminating sulfate and 'cone products completely but I am open to having the majority of my product stash to be sulfate-free and 'cone free products.

Any recommendations? Please let me know if the the product is a shampoo, conditioner, or deep conditioner and if it is a sulfate/'cone free product. Thanks in advance!

Product Recommendation?

Can I get some advice from you?

I am currently on a product buying fast and I refuse to buy anymore shampoos or conditioners until I have used up what I have.

Earlier this year I went on a hair diet and I was very satisfied with the results of using sulfate free and 'cone free products. I am not eliminating sulfate and 'cone products completely but I am open to having the majority of my product stash to be sulfate-free and 'cone free products.

Any recommendations? Please let me know if the the product is a shampoo, conditioner, or deep conditioner and if it is a sulfate/'cone free product. Thanks in advance!

Coconut Oil Taught me a lesson

Lesson learned: Don't use coconut oil to twist my hair in the summer.

I washed and conditioned my hair, applied a leave-in conditioner, and applied coconut oil to each section of hair as I twisted. For 1.5 days coconut oil was dripping from my hair down my neck. I looked like I was sweating all day, LOL.

Coconut Oil Taught me a lesson

Lesson learned: Don't use coconut oil to twist my hair in the summer.

I washed and conditioned my hair, applied a leave-in conditioner, and applied coconut oil to each section of hair as I twisted. For 1.5 days coconut oil was dripping from my hair down my neck. I looked like I was sweating all day, LOL.

The "BC" and dryness

I have noticed that a lot of individuals that have BC'ed (Big Chopped) report dryness shortly after BCing. Is this something that comes with the territory or is it hit and miss kind of thing? Poll below:




Help a fellow natural: If you experienced dryness, how did you handle it?

The "BC" and dryness

I have noticed that a lot of individuals that have BC'ed (Big Chopped) report dryness shortly after BCing. Is this something that comes with the territory or is it hit and miss kind of thing? Poll below:




Help a fellow natural: If you experienced dryness, how did you handle it?

Be a Money $aving Product Junkie

If you can't help but become a product junkie there are ways to go about it with a decreased feeling of guilt.

1. Don't jump on bandwagons! Seriously - a bandwagon almost ruined all my hard work. I have learned (the hard way) to let others experiment and then wait for the results.

2. Request samples. There are so many companies out there that will provide samples to potential customers that there is no need to go out and purchase full sized full priced products just to "try" them.

3. Shop the travel aisle. If a company does not provide samples try the travel aisle in your local retail/discount store. Those items are constantly changing so keep your eye on them to see if the product you are curious about makes the shelf.

4. Use coupons. The funniest thing to me is to be line behind a person that just paid full price for a product and then they hear my total being about 50% less...all because I used a coupon. Here is the trick: purchase the item only when on sale and use the coupon at the moment. Also, if the store has a VIP/MVP card, get one and use it.

5. Swap, Swap, Swap. When you RSVP "yes" to attend a meet-up, GO! (no one likes a slacker). Usually at meet ups there are product swaps and someone just might bring the product that you have been wanting.

Be a Money $aving Product Junkie

If you can't help but become a product junkie there are ways to go about it with a decreased feeling of guilt.

1. Don't jump on bandwagons! Seriously - a bandwagon almost ruined all my hard work. I have learned (the hard way) to let others experiment and then wait for the results.

2. Request samples. There are so many companies out there that will provide samples to potential customers that there is no need to go out and purchase full sized full priced products just to "try" them.

3. Shop the travel aisle. If a company does not provide samples try the travel aisle in your local retail/discount store. Those items are constantly changing so keep your eye on them to see if the product you are curious about makes the shelf.

4. Use coupons. The funniest thing to me is to be line behind a person that just paid full price for a product and then they hear my total being about 50% less...all because I used a coupon. Here is the trick: purchase the item only when on sale and use the coupon at the moment. Also, if the store has a VIP/MVP card, get one and use it.

5. Swap, Swap, Swap. When you RSVP "yes" to attend a meet-up, GO! (no one likes a slacker). Usually at meet ups there are product swaps and someone just might bring the product that you have been wanting.

Product Recommendations...

...are something that I shy away from. Why? Simply because I don't know anyone's hair well enough to tell them "This will work for you." or "This is what you should spend your hair earned money on."

I do get a lot of questions that revolve around "What products should I buy to XYZ?"

My answer: I don't know (seriously). What I can do is offer up a list of the products I use but the thing is, those products work for my hair. In order to determine what is best for your hair you need to assess your hair care needs. Basically, what issues are you looking to address?

Frizziness?

Dryness?

Split Ends?

Manageability?

Look for products that are designed to help with those issues.

It is going to take trial and error to discover the products that work for your hair so the one thing I can suggest is ways to save money while on the search. Some companies offer travel size products so instead of spending a lot on a full size item that you might not like, opt for the travel size version before investing. Visit the website of the product you are interested in and see if they provide free samples. If you don't see a link for free samples on their webpage - contact them, sometimes companies want consumers to do a little "work" for what things they desire. Plus this helps the company cut costs because so many people will not contact the company for samples and will just go buy the full size, full priced item.

You have not because you ask not.

Another option is to read product reviews. On a number of product websites there are links that customers use to provide feedback. Browse through a couple of sites and read some reviews. It just may help with your decision making.

Good luck on your product search!

Product Recommendations...

...are something that I shy away from. Why? Simply because I don't know anyone's hair well enough to tell them "This will work for you." or "This is what you should spend your hair earned money on."

I do get a lot of questions that revolve around "What products should I buy to XYZ?"

My answer: I don't know (seriously). What I can do is offer up a list of the products I use but the thing is, those products work for my hair. In order to determine what is best for your hair you need to assess your hair care needs. Basically, what issues are you looking to address?

Frizziness?

Dryness?

Split Ends?

Manageability?

Look for products that are designed to help with those issues.

It is going to take trial and error to discover the products that work for your hair so the one thing I can suggest is ways to save money while on the search. Some companies offer travel size products so instead of spending a lot on a full size item that you might not like, opt for the travel size version before investing. Visit the website of the product you are interested in and see if they provide free samples. If you don't see a link for free samples on their webpage - contact them, sometimes companies want consumers to do a little "work" for what things they desire. Plus this helps the company cut costs because so many people will not contact the company for samples and will just go buy the full size, full priced item.

You have not because you ask not.

Another option is to read product reviews. On a number of product websites there are links that customers use to provide feedback. Browse through a couple of sites and read some reviews. It just may help with your decision making.

Good luck on your product search!